Activities
Activities
Helping Your Child Succeed in School - November 1992
Activities
There is no one "right" way of doing these activities. Make changes,
shorten or lengthen them to suit your child's attention span, or think up some activities of your
own. Above all, enjoy them. And don't worry about what you might not have done in the past. Start
where you are now, with the resources you have now.
At the end of each activity in italicized text, is information on why
that activity is important to your child's education. The suggested activities all build skills,
attitudes, and behaviors children need for good study habits. They are designed to help develop
personal maturity, enthusiasm for learning, and the ability to concentrate.
But that does not mean the activities are hard to do and won't be any fun.
They are easy to do, cost little or no money, use materials found at home, and don't take much time.
Work out your own schedule for the activities. Don't forget to try them on
vacation days or in the summer, too. If you've only used one part of an activity, you can go back to
it and find the ideas you haven't tried. Experience indicates that all of the activities, in whole
or in part, will be useful. Ability in schoolwork is like ability in sports: it takes practice to
gain confidence, to become motivated, and to win.
Age Levels
The activities are arranged by approximate age levels. But, of course, you are
the best judge of what your child may be ready to try. Age levels of the activities are indicated by
a symbol at the top of each activity:
Ages 5-7
The activities for these
early school years focus on helping children get ready for schoolwork and get a head start on the
habits and behaviors important for ongoing success in school.
Ages 7-9
These activities help children become
organized and build early study skills and work habits.
Ages 9-11
These projects for children in the
upper elementary grades continue to focus on work and study habits, with more emphasis on making
personal decisions.
Remember:
- We can all be great teachers;
- Every home is a learning place;
- We don't need a lot of time to do a lot of good; and
- Everyone's abilities and skills can be improved.
Let's Go
Pick an activity and try it with your children. You will know they are learning
when they say, "Let me try it." And you'll know they understand when they shout: "Let
me do it! Let me! Let me."
Teamwork is important in school. In this game, children practice taking
turns and working with others. They also build language skills.
What you'll need
Imagination
What to do
- Make up a story, with parents and children taking turns, one sentence at
a time.
Decide on a topic. You might begin the first sentence with "Once
upon a time a pirate lived in ..."
Continue taking turns making up and telling parts of the story until
you decide to end it--maybe after 8 or 10 sentences.
- Take turns beginning and finishing a story. Ask other family members and
friends to join in.
By making up stories, children can improve their language skills. They can
also start to understand how ideas flow from one to another, and that everyone's ideas are
important.
This game helps teach how to listen carefully and follow directions, two
things that are important in school.
What you'll need
Any small object you can hide
Objects that make noise
What to do
- Hide a small object. Give directions to find it such as, "Take five
steps ahead. Turn right. Keep the lamp to your left. Bend down and look to the right."
Take turns doing this.
- All but one person close their eyes. The person with his or her eyes open
makes a sound (such as keys jangling, hands clapping, a bell ringing, a spoon tapping
against a glass). Everyone else tries to guess what is making the sound.
- Clap your hands to tap out a rhythm. Have another player listen and then
clap that same rhythm back to you. Do it different ways: slow, fast, loud, soft. Make the
rhythms harder as it gets easier to repeat them.
- When taking a walk, or any place where you can stop for a few minutes,
sit quietly for 30 seconds with your eyes closed, then tell each other what you heard: a
baby crying, an airplane, a bird singing.
- Take a walk. One of you tell the other person what to do--cross the
street, turn left, look down. Take turns following each other's directions.
Through practice, children can learn to listen carefully, see and hear
details, and follow directions.
This game will help your children see the difference between "a few
seconds" and "a few minutes," and can help them be on time in school.
What you'll need
Paper
Pencil
A timer of some kind (alarm clock, kitchen timer)
Clock or watch with all 12 numerals and a second hand
What to do
- Ask your children to watch the second hand tick five seconds. Together,
count off the seconds.
- Count off 30 seconds. How many times can your child clap hands during
this time? Take turns timing and watching each other.
- Make guesses about how long ordinary things take:
How long is a traffic light red or green?
How long does it take to eat dinner?
How long does it take to get ready for school?
Test your guesses with the watch or timer. How close did you each come to the right answer?
- Read a book aloud with your child for 3 minutes. Time yourselves. Then
move up to 5 minutes, then to 10, and so on.
Learning that some things take longer than others will help your child
understand how long it takes to do a task and how to plan for it. This activity will also help them
increase their attention span.
This activity teaches children to pay close attention by seeing how long
it takes different kinds of liquids to freeze and melt.
What you'll need
2 ice cube trays
A clock
Water
Small bowls
Paper
Pencil
Other liquids
What to do
- Together, fill one ice cube tray to the top with water. Fill the other
tray only half full.
Put both trays in the freezer. Check the clock. In 2 hours, look to
see if the water has frozen (if not, wait until it has frozen).
How long did it take the water in each tray to freeze?
Did the smaller amount of water freeze faster than the larger amount?
- Take an ice cube from each of the 2 trays. Put them in separate bowls to
melt. Which cube melts faster--the larger one or the smaller one?
- Put one ice cube in a window and another in the refrigerator (not
freezer) and see how long they take to melt.
- Try to freeze samples of liquids such as fruit juices. Compare their
freezing times to that of water.
This activity can help your child understand that things don't happen
immediately. It will also introduce the concept of change--liquid to solid to liquid again--and the
idea of having to wait to get the result you want.
Organization has to be learned. This activity lets children practice
planning, beginning, and finishing a job--important parts of completing schoolwork.
What you'll need
Pencil
Paper
Items used to do a job around the house, such as watering plants or setting the table
What to do
- Together, select one job your child usually does around the house, such
as watering plants.
Ask your child to write down or tell you the "Plan,"
"Do," and "Finish" steps needed to do the job well.
Look over these steps together and talk about possible changes.
Plan |
Do |
Finish |
Get Supplies |
1. Fill Can |
1. Throw away towels and dead leaves |
1. Watering can |
2. Water Plants |
2. Put can away |
2. Paper Towels |
3. Wipe up spills |
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- See what happens if one plant isn't watered when it is supposed to be.
How long does it take for the leaves to start changing color?
- List the "plan," "do," and "finish" steps
of one or two jobs you do around the house. Ask your child to help you think of ways to
improve these steps.
- When your children have a new task, help them plan the steps so they can
do the job well and have a sense of accomplishment.
Sometimes taking time to plan seems like "a waste of time," but
it has been shown that those who plan a job are usually more successful and do it in a shorter
amount of time.
Seeing the changes from not watering a plant can introduce the idea of
"cause and effect."
All of us have ways in which we are special. This activity helps children
recognize and appreciate how they, and others, are special.
What you'll need
Pen or pencil
Paper
What to do
- Together, think of and write down at least 2 things you like about
yourselves (for example, I have a good sense of humor; I try to be fair).
Write down 2 things you like about the others playing this game.
Now, take turns talking about what others say they like about you.
- Write down 2 things you would like to improve. When will you start? How
long do you think it will take?
- Think of some jobs around the house that both of you will feel proud of,
like fixing special food for the family, teaching the family a new game, or fixing something
that's broken.
- Try to set a time every day, even a few minutes, when you can talk about
things that happened that day.
Find times to listen to each other and to chat. A ride to the grocery
store or a wait at the dentist's office can be a good time.
Self-confidence can make a difference in how much success a person has,
both at school and later in life.
Talking about what happened during the day lets children work out problems
early instead of having them pile up and become overwhelming.
Children need help getting organized. A special place for school items
helps make mornings smoother for parents and children.
What you'll need
Cardboard box
Crayons or markers
What to do
- Find a sturdy cardboard box or carton large enough to hold notebooks and
other school things. Let your child decorate it with pictures, words, or art work, and his
or her name. Each child in the family can have a separate box.
Together, find a place to put the box. A spot near the front door or
the place where your child does homework would be good.
School things should go in the box as soon as your child comes home
from school. Later, all homework and anything else needed for school the next day should go
into it.
In the winter, hats and mittens can also go in the box when they are
dry.
- Let your child make a rainy day box and put it in a different place (or
make it a different color). Fill it with "treasures"--games, books, a new pencil.
Invite other members of the family to put surprises in the box (no snakes or frogs, please).
Keeping all school items in one place helps teach children how much easier
life can be when we are organized and plan ahead.
Show your appreciation when your child keeps things in order.
This activity gives each child a separate place to study or play.
What you'll need
Space--even a tiny area will do
A small but steady table
1 chair
1 lamp
Small floor covering
What to do
- Together, find a quiet study area away from the TV and radio for each
child (even those not old enough to have homework yet).
- Cut down an old blanket, rug, or sheet to put on a small area of the
floor. Use this to mark off each child's private space. Put the table and chair on the floor
covering. This space does not have to be in the same place all the time. If the
table is light weight, the floor cover can be put down any place it is out of the way (such
as near the kitchen if a child needs help while dinner is being fixed). It can also be put
away when it is not being used.
- If the study space will always be in the same place, try out different
arrangements of the furniture to see what works best. Arrange the lamp so the study area is
well lit.
- Together, label items with the child's name.
Watch for improvement and show pleasure when quality of work improves.
Children tend to argue over the same space (even in a big room). By having an
area of the floor marked off, each child has a place that feels like his or her own. A special place
also helps children focus on what they are studying.
Children need the experience of doing chores. The following are ideas to
help children be more responsible and realize the importance of people doing what they say they will
do.
What you'll need
Helping hands
What to do
- Talk about what happens when people do the things they are responsible
for (water the plants or feed pets, for example).
Think about what would happen if people did not do these things--if
the bus driver stayed home, or the movie projectionist didn't show up for work. Together,
think of more examples.
- Decide together on jobs for each family member to do. Should people be
able to do only the things they like? Talk together about this.
- Turn a household task into a game. Decide together how long it will take
to do the job. Time yourselves against the clock.
Listening to the radio or a record while you do the job makes it more
fun. This helps the work get done faster, too.
Children need to learn early how others are affected when chores are not
done. Talk about why it is necessary to do things we don't want to do, and why we should not expect
others to do our work.
This activity also gives children an early lesson in how to make good
decisions.
"I don't have time to do all I need time to do." Sound
familiar? Planning our time is one of the most useful things we can learn. Knowing how long
something will take can save time and tempers.
What you'll need
Paper
Pencil
Clock
Calendar
What to do
- Together, write down your estimates of how long it takes to do certain
tasks (such as getting ready for school or work in the morning; fixing a meal).
Use a clock to time at least one of these tasks. Then take turns
timing each other. (But be realistic--it's not necessarily a race.)
- See what part of a job can be done ahead of time, such as deciding at
bedtime what to wear the next day.
- Talk about at least 2 places you and your children go where you must be
on time. What do you do to make sure you are on time?
- Put a monthly calendar with large spaces where everyone can see it. Each
member of the family can use a different colored marker to list appointments and social
activities.
Being on time, or not being on time, affects other
people. It is important for children to understand their responsibility for being on time--it's not
just for grown-ups.
Homework without nagging is much to be desired. Have your child try a
homework chart.
What you'll need
Paper
Marker, pen, or pencil
Clock
What to do
- Have (or help) your child do the following: Create a homework chart out
of a sturdy, large-sized piece of paper.
Subject |
Monday |
Tuesday |
Wednesday |
Thursday |
Friday |
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Arts |
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English |
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History |
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Math |
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Science |
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Attach a colored marker or pen so that it is always handy.
Each day after school, put a check mark in each box in which there is
a homework assignment. Circle the check when the homework is completed.
- Make a new chart for each week. Depending on how many subjects you have,
you may be able to put 3 or 4 weeks on each piece of paper.
- Try to figure out how long it will take to complete homework assignments
so you know when you need to start working.
A homework chart can show exactly what needs to be done when, and gives a
feeling of accomplishment when an assignment is crossed off.
Talk to your child about homework. Does your child need or want more time or
help? Does your child want to devote more time to learning about a certain subject?
Just about anything is easier to do if it's divided into smaller pieces.
As assignments get longer and more complicated, more organizing and planning skills are needed.
What you'll need
Homework assignments
Jobs in and around the house
Paper
Pencil
What to do
- Choose a big assignment to talk about, such as a geography project.
Decide together, and have your child write down, what he or she needs to complete the job.
For example:
Reference materials (books, maps)
Can you complete the assignment just using your textbook? If not, do you need to go to the
library? If so, can you check out books, or will you have to allow time to stay there and
use reference books?
Notes
Do you have a notebook? Pencils? Will you need note cards?
Illustrations
If you need pictures, where will you get them?
Finished project
Will it be a stapled report? A poster? A folded brochure? What will you need to complete the
job?
- Decide the order in which the parts of the job need to be done. Number
the steps.
- Try to estimate how long each step will take. Work backwards from the
date the paper is due in order to see when each part needs to be started. Put start and
finish dates next to these steps, then put the assignment on a calendar or homework chart.
- Together, think about a household job, such as gardening or cleaning.
Divide it up into smaller parts.
- Talk about how adults divide work on their jobs or at home.
This trick of dividing big jobs into small pieces helps make all jobs
easier and can save a lot of wear and tear on everyone when it's time to hand in a school
assignment.
Older students are interested in life beyond school. You can help them
have a realistic sense of what's out there.
What you'll need
Pen or pencil
Paper
Newspaper "help wanted" ads
Friends and neighbors
What to do
- Talk with your child: "What job do you think you would like to do
when you get out of school? What training do you think you will need to get this job?"
- Suggest that your child pick two adults he or she knows, such as
neighbors or relatives, to interview briefly about their jobs.
Help your child think of at least 3 questions to write down, leaving
space for the answers. Sample questions: What is your job? How long have you held it? What
kind of special training did you need?
Have your child do the interviews. (You may want to help him or her
get started.)
After the interview, talk about what your child learned. Now your
child will be more comfortable doing the next step.
- Read a page of the newspaper help wanted ads together. Have your child
find ads for three jobs that he or she might want in the future. Talk together about the
training needed for each job: Can some of it be learned on the job? How much schooling is
necessary?
Have your child find people who already have these jobs and interview
them.
Remember that there will be many new kinds of jobs in the future. What
children--and adults, too--need to do is be flexible and keep on learning.
We need to think about more than our own interests and ask "How can
I help others?"
What you'll need
Newspaper and magazine articles
What to do
- Together, find newspaper articles about people who get involved. Look for
ways to help other people that involve your child's interests.
- What are some everyday good deeds? Ask your children to think back and
remember a time when they helped another person. Think big and think small.
- Discuss community food drives and volunteer tutoring programs. Suggest
that your children check with a local religious group, community or recreation center,
school, or library.
- Explore the possibility of joining a young people's group that does
community service.
- Ask your children to name at least two things they could do today or
tomorrow to help others. What will it take? Encourage your children to make a commitment.
Taking part in community activities can not only help others, but can also
help your child make new friends and learn new skills.
Decide how you are going to use TV. Watching television can be
educational or something we do in our spare time.
What you'll need
TV set
TV schedule
Pen or pencil
What to do
- Decide together how much TV your family will watch. Read the TV schedule.
Have each family member decide what he or she would like to watch. Put initials
next to everyone's choices.
Decide what you will watch each day or week. Circle your
choices. If 2 people want to watch different programs at the same time, try to compromise;
take turns.
Your child's teacher may assign a TV program as homework; make
allowance if this happens.
- Try to find time to watch TV with your child. Be sure they understand
what's real and what isn't.
- Have board games, books, or projects handy so children can do other
things when TV time is used up.
If your children watch too much TV, try cutting down a little at a time.
Avoid leaving a TV set on all day.
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